Lifetime Love Connection - Creating Loving, Lasting Relationships

Success Stories

"Near the end of the course I met someone really great. It was amazing how it happened.

During the course I really get to know myself, my values, my wants and needs. I became very clear about my requirements for a partner.

A friend of mine introduced me to Paul because she knew we had similar values for making a difference in the world. Paul and I liked each other but it didn’t feel likely to become the relationship I was looking for. However, when Paul invited me to come to a picnic to meet some of his friends, I agreed.

Not long after getting there a group started playing Frisbee golf and there was this guy name Bryon who kept throwing the Frisbee at me. I can remember feeling annoyed by him because he seemed to be drawing my attention away from why I “thought” I was there.

As we played the game he kept making comments and eventually I listened to him. His comments intrigued me and we began talking about many philosophical things.

I could hear Byron revealing his own areas of commitment: communication and a focus on partnership in relationships. Once I “heard” these key pieces, I knew I could not let this one go. We have been together ever since.”

Jane (46 year old divorcee who raised 3 daughters on her own)

"When I started the Stop Dating, Start Mating Program I wasn’t sure if I wanted a relationship or not. During the course I saw that my purpose in life was to have fun and enjoy myself but I thought a relationship needed to be serious. I also clarified what characteristics were essential in my mate like generosity, nurturing and openness to new adventures and let go of my attachment to certain specific physical requirements. Soon after having these two revelations, I met my partner through a friend and in our first conversation on the phone, everything connected so clearly, that I requested to go out with her that evening and we have been enjoying one another ever since.”

Scott (47 year old divorcee raising 2 boys)

"I got engaged to a man who had 3 great teenagers. He agreed to move in with me in February 2004, but in January, he told me that he was not moving in and needed more time. I realized that this was a pattern in his past relationships from events he had shared. Because I learned in your Stop Dating-Start Mating program to settle for nothing less than my must haves, needs and wants, I broke it off.

Within a couple of weeks, my father hired a 38 year-old production manager from Kansas, for his landscaping company. This single guy wanted to live in my lower level and pay rent. He and I hit it off and we now spend every night at home together. Wes and I are growing in love and I now realize that knowing exactly what I wanted in my ideal mate allowed me to take the difficult step of giving up someone I felt I loved and opened the way for me to attract someone who actually fit. I consider this a miracle because I did nothing to try to make this relationship happen.”

MaryAnn (35 year old divorcee with no children)

"Thanks to the Keep Your Connection Alive Program, we were able to understand the cause of the affair and forgive one another for the ways in which we were not fulfilling each others needs.

We designed our vision for our life together and as a result moved to another state where both of our individual futures can be fulfilled.

We created agreements to live by in our marriage and learned to identify and communicate our needs to one another. One of our agreements is to negotiate our needs until both parties are satisfied.

In only 12 weeks, we had the experience of falling “in love” again. We are so grateful to this program for giving us to the tools save our marriage. We could never have done it on our own. “

Brad & Mary (Married for 20 years)

“Thanks to the Stop Dating, Start Mating program, I met THE ONE at a personal growth workshop last October in Virginia and he'll be moving here by June 1 to be with me.

On my way home after spending Christmas with him in the mountains of Virginia, I suddenly remembered that when I created my Pathway to Lifetime Love Connection Plan™ I declared that I would be with my ideal mate by Christmas—and now it was all coming true! This was my favorite Christmas ever.”

Pat (50 year old grandmother)

"Thanks to the “Foolproof” Future program, we were able to understand why we were fighting even though we knew we loved one another.

After completing the exercises on values, vision and purpose, we could see that we were aligned.

We then began to explore our issues and what needs each of us had that were not being fulfilled by the other that led to our “fights”. We realized that we had expectations of one another that we had never made clear and when those expectations were not met, we “fought”.

During the program we were able to learn to identify what we wanted or needed from the other and how to put that into clear words so that we could negotiate for an acceptable solution. This process allowed us to forgive one another and our experience of love and passion was renewed."

Kevin & Martha (Pre-Committed Couple)